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Negative people and positive people are different in the first place, so isn't the opinion of a positive person counterproductive? Talk

May 16, 2019

Well, if you have depression, you have negative thoughts, so I was wondering if you would get depressed, but I'm sure that people with positive thoughts will get depressed.

There is also a theory that negative thinking is easier to succeed. It seems that people with negative thoughts are more careful, are prepared for anxiety, and have higher concentration.

Negative thinking and positive thinking have different ways of success

In the first place, people with positive thinking and people with negative thinking seem to have different ways of success, and they are roughly divided into two types.

Type to act carefully

It is a type that thinks "may fail", and has the characteristic of carefully preparing in advance from that anxiety, and the type that reduces failures and increases the success rate with that caution. People with negative thoughts are this type.

A type that acts without fear of failure

A type that positively thinks that "the next will work", and because he acts hard without fear of failure, he has many trials and earns many successful cases. People who are positive and optimistic will be successful in this type. The higher the number of trials, the lower the probability of success, but I don't care about failure, so I think the success rate is high (I have the illusion).

In general, most of the opinions and self-development books of successful people are stories, books and coaching theories that act without fear of failure, and successful people who act carefully are proud of their success. Because I don't do it, I can't talk about it, so it seems that the law of success = it's like acting without fear of failure.

So, even if a person with negative thoughts reads a self-development book written by a positive person and thinks "I'm gonna do it", the law of success is exactly the opposite, so I was told to act without fear of failure. However, positive people don't care about failure, but negative people get hurt every time they fail, so they may get sick and depressed, so people with negative thinking are characteristic of that negative thinking. Let's make good use of and succeed.

Generally, there is an image of "negative = bad", but in reality, negative or positive is a kind of personality and it is a story of individuality, so it does not mean which is better or which is worse.

There are both positives and negatives, and it's not good to be too optimistic.

It's easier to live if you accept yourself as you are and raise your self-esteem, and if you recognize yourself and act by taking advantage of your own characteristics, it's easier to succeed.

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