It's about the characteristics of people who can seize opportunities in life.
"Luck" is not only the luck of drawing lottery tickets with a random probability, but also the characteristics of lucky people who can get the luck they want now, such as business opportunities and encounters with people. Become.
Make a lucky life by imitating the characteristics of a lucky person and conscious of how to get lucky.
Four characteristics of a lucky person
① It is good to notice the chance
Naturally, it is natural, but psychologically speaking, the "color bath effect" applies.
The color bath effect is a phenomenon in which a lot of information about a certain thing is unknowingly gathered in one's hand by being aware of one thing.
The color bath is derived from "bath", that is, the recognition of color, but it occurs not only in color but also in words, images, things, and all other conscious events.
The human brain has the property of actively recognizing only the specific event from the information obtained by the five senses by being aware of the specific event.
In other words, because the consciousness is always working on opportunities and lucky events, the person who makes the brain aware of the opportunities from the information obtained.
It seems that many people are positive and optimistic, but even those who are not will be able to notice the chances before they escape if they act with the chances in mind.
② Believe in intuition and act quickly
If you realize an opportunity, the person who can act quickly to seize it is the one who is lucky as a result.
The behavior of unlucky people is, for example, "I found a guitar that looks good in a thrift shop, but it's quite expensive and I don't know if it's really necessary, and while I was wondering what to do, it was sold to another person. There is a wind that says "I've done it."
Maybe I didn't have to buy it, but this person regrets a little, "I should have bought it." "If I didn't need it, I should have sold it again. If I put out Yahoo Auction, it might have sold higher."
If you're lucky, you'll either believe in your intuition and buy the guitar, and then either make it your favorite or sell it to others, but believe in your intuition that you'll regret it if you do n't act and take action quickly. The person who can do it is the lucky person.
③ Keep moving without giving up hope
Any large company would start out on a small scale with a small number of people, and by continuing to believe in prosperity, the business would get on track and grow little by little.
The top athletes of athletes would have made steady efforts to reach the top without giving up hope.
But should not be a wasted effort, to in some cases you do not know and do not try Whether waste or, luck because good people have the power to continue that he believed after all, continue to maintain the productivity that Is possible.
④ Even if something is wrong, recovery is quick
A lucky person is one who can recover quickly in the face of adversity or frustration. "Resilience = resilience" is high and we have a strong mentality against adversity.
However, resilience can be strengthened by training.
3 ways to get lucky
① Pay attention to emotions
Pay attention to what kind of intuition you feel about the characteristic of a lucky person, "You can act by believing intuition."
People who are unlucky tend to downplay their intuition or completely deny that they are negative, but first they feel their intuition , "behavior that believes intuition" and "logical that does not rely on intuition." It 's a good idea to try three things: "action" and "action that denies intuition ."
② Try new things
People who are unlucky tend to take one-pattern actions even in their daily lives. Because it instinctively takes actions that are known to be safe, "go to work on the same route as usual", "take the same train as usual", "shop at the same shop as usual", "meal as usual", etc. It tends to be the same.
As a way to seize the opportunity, it is not the "usual" action that you know that nothing will happen, but it can be a small thing, so if you try new things with a different route and increase the number of trials, you will be lucky. You will have more chances to meet.
③ Interpret for yourself
Trying new things is, of course, not only good, but also risky, but if you have any bad luck, try to find the lucky one in it.
For example, if you had an accident, "I was in an accident, but I can be hospitalized and relax, and I'm lucky because I can forget about my work for a while." Or "I might get along with people in the same room." I'm glad you came to visit me. "
It may seem a little overwhelming, but if you look for a good side and take it positively, you will be able to take more action to seize opportunities.
Summary
A lucky person can be said to be "a person who is observant, quick to act, able to stay productive, and highly resilient ."
Negative people tend to have a narrow field of view, but by having a positive field of view, you should be able to notice opportunities in areas that you couldn't see.