People with an introverted personality are generally shy and not good at talking to people, and tend to look dark or have a negative personality, but they are more likely to be liked by people than diplomatic people. The theory is that there are many people who can also work.
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Many introverts have a low voice
There are quite a few introverts who have the characteristic of "low voice". And people without delicacy rub against a negative image, "I don't know what you're saying because your voice is quiet," but I like people with low voices many times more than people with loud voices. I can have it.
So why does the voice become quieter?
A caring personality
I think that my voice will be quiet because I care about the other person's heart and try to speak carefully so as not to hurt my own remarks. There is no idea of pushing through one's own opinion, but listen to the other person's opinion and speak with respect for the other person. In other words, since it is important to treat the other person gently, the voice will have a gentle and gentle tone, so it will inevitably become smaller.
On the other hand, most of the people I met who were uselessly loud were people who had no feelings of compassion for the other person and who would be disappointed if their opinions were correct and criticized.
In other words, a person with a low voice has a high degree of liking because he is caring for the other person, has a gentle, delicate and gentle personality.
Thoughtful and responsible personality
An introverted person sends out very high-quality information by ruminating and elaborating in his or her mind, elaborating his or her thoughts, and then putting them into words or sending them.
It may give the impression that it is difficult and "dark" because you are careful not to make irresponsible transmissions by asking yourself questions, but that is also because you have a strong sense of responsibility. Because he is thoughtful, he makes a careful statement after summarizing his opinions, which delays the time from the question to the statement, resulting in a gentle and gentle tone of voice, so there are only a lot of voices that do not try to understand the feelings of the other party. It seems to be an unpleasant impression for a rugged human being.
On the other hand, people who speak unnecessarily loudly are "people who speak without thinking", "people who do not think that their remarks may hurt the other person", "people who take their opinions correctly and for granted", "people who take it for granted" I felt that there were many people who pretended to be listening and did not listen.
People who are loud and noisy, or who speak loudly and intimidatingly, may be critical of their small voices and may not be willing to listen to their opinions. I think I should listen to it with all my might, but I dismiss it because my voice is quiet. You're a sad person.
In other words, people with low voices think carefully, think about various possibilities, and act cautiously, so they show very high abilities depending on the type of job.
"Small voice" is a personality and should not be negative
Generally speaking, a quiet voice seems to be bad, but is it justice for someone who talks loudly on a train, for example? Is it justice in a loud voice even if it is a wrong opinion or a selfish opinion? I don't think that's the case.
It is the same as discrimination to deny personality or judge personality by the loudness of the voice.
Rather, personally, people with a quiet voice are more credible and like it.